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What is the best place to meet you?
Work 9.6%
School 16.1%
Bar or club 9.2%
Internet 5.7%
Through mutual friends 53.0%
Church/religious institution 0.9%
World of Warcraft forum 0.5%
Other 5.0%: "Anyplace-just take initiative and show interest. Nut up, fellas!"

What is the best way for a guy to break the ice?
Offer you a compliment 9.7%
Make a joke 40.6%
Introduce himself 45.9%
Start singing "You've Lost That Lovin' Feeling" 1.0%
Other 2.8%: "Say something about what's going on where we are."

What's the biggest potential turnoff when first meeting a man?
Bad hygiene 36.0%
Attention-seeking behavior 19.1%
Extreme shyness 4.3%
Off-color remarks 9.3%
"Pickup artist" tactics such as backhanded compliments 21.0%
Talk of his ex 5.5%
A sixth finger 0.8%
Other 3.9%: "Arrogance."

"'Pickup artist' tactics are pathetic. You know what they're doing! Means they have no confidence."--Evgenia, 26

What is the biggest turn-on when meeting a man?
Gentlemanly behavior, like opening doors 27.8%
Lots of eye contact 18.9%
He asks a lot of questions about me 11.9%
Playful teasing 37.2%
Physical contact 4.2%

33% say you should never ask a woman why she's single.

What's the best indication that you're into a guy you've just met?
I touch his arm or leg during conversation 22.4%
I don't pull away if he touches me 21.3%
I play with my hair 4.8%
I laugh at everything he says 11.5%
I tease him good-naturedly 38.8%
I grab his penis 1.2%

"On a first date a guy said, 'I can't stop staring at your breasts. They seem pretty perfect. Care to prove me right?' Um, no thank you and check, please!"--Monica, 27

Should a man always pay on the first date?
Yes 49.4%
No 24.4%
Only if he expects to go on a second date 26.2%

What is the best oral sex technique?
Switching up speed and pressure 27%
Making the same motion over and over, with consistent speed and pressure 17.5
One that incorporates your fingers 34.3%
I'm not fussy. Just get down there 16.5%
Other 4.7%

"When it comes to oral sex, anything is great. Just don't seem bored, and don't bite!"-Sofia, 24

Which celebrity is your "type"?
James Franco 38.8%
Ryan Reynolds 48.6%
Jason Schwartzman 8.6%
Kayne West 1.6%
Marck Sanchez 5.9%
DJ Pauly D 1.4%

When is it OK for a guy to make a move?
Whenever, as long as he's sure I'm into him 71.3%
Only at the end of the first date 7.6%
Only after two or more dates 17.1%
I prefer to make the first move 4.1%

96% of women will give a guy a second chance in bed if he sucks the first time.

First-time sex should be...
Gentle as a summer breeze 56.9%
Like riding a bronco on a roller coaster 43.1%

On a first date, 70% would rather have dinner or drinks than do something active like dancing

The most popular position, with 31% of the vote, is doggie style.
Other options:

Missionary 23.8%
Girl on top 27.1%
Reverse cowgirl 2.2%
Spooning 4.7%
Standing 2.5%
69 1.6%
Other 6.1%: My legs over his shoulders.

Which of the following is most likely to bring you to orgasm?
Oral sex 44.1%
Nipple sucking and fondling 8.8%
P in your V 35.8%
A third season of Glee 1.8%
Other 9.5%: "Just thinking." | "Clit stimulation: fingers or tongue." | Finger-banging." | "My vibrator. Love a man who isn't scared of it.

You would rather be with a guy who is...
Lousy in bed but amazing in every other way 86.6%
Amazing in bed but lousy in every other way 13.4%

Is it possible for you to have no-strings-attached sex?
Sure, I'm as horny and commitment-phobic as a dude 48.6%
No, I always end up wanting more from the guy 51.4%

What would you like more of during sex?
Foreplay 39.6%
Oral sex 17.7%
Eye contact 6.1%
Dirty talk 10.0%
Spanking and rough play 16.6%
Vibrators and toys 3.9%
Elaborate role-play scenarios 0.9%
Other 5.1%: "Kissing. Making out like teenagers is fun."

"I like to be held up against a wall and slammed against it from time to time."-Sona, 25

23%of women have had—and enjoyed—anal sex.

How long do you want sex to last (foreplay plus penetration)?
Up to 20 minutes 7.2%
Up to 30 minutes 32.9%
Up to 45 minutes 28.3%
Up to an hour 23.0%
Over an hour 8.7%


What dirty talk is off-limits?
The C-word 22.4%
Bitch/whore 38.0%
Asking me about your penis 6.3%
All of it 15.9%
None of it 17.4%

During sex you fantasize about...
The man you're with 73.7%
Another man you know 6.0
A male celeb 3.3
A girl 4.9
An orgy 4.3
A ferret, a balloon, and a jar of peanut butter. Or is that just us? 1.0
Other 6.9%: "I'm too in the moment to fantasize!" | "Somebody spanking me and pulling my hair." | "The man I'm with and a girl." | "Postapocalyptic John Conner." | "Being watched." | "Nothing, I'm too focused on how good it feels." | "My favorite porn scenes." | "Sex in public."

2011 Sex Survey