What A Beautiful Girl Wants: Stephanie Straface

The New York-based model and firefighter wants you to be vocal in the bedroom.

Model and firefighter Stephanie Straface brings the heat. 

How do you stay in shape?

I hit the gym 4-5 days a week, alternating muscle groups to get the best workout. I also do fun stuff like paddle boarding and water skiing in the summer and snowboarding in the winter.

Is it important for the men of your life to keep fit? Or are you into the whole “dad-bod” phenomenon?

It is extremely important for the guy in my life to be fit and healthy. I need someone who can keep up with me!

You also work as a firefighter. Do you ever intimidate men? Should we be intimidated?

I’ve been a firefighter for over 10 years now, so I think men are more surprised to find out that I am a firefighter than intimidated by it. Though I guess you’d have to ask the guy to get the truth!

How can a man catch your attention?

A man can catch my attention by just being real. No need to be fake or put up a front. Just be yourself and smile. Nothing beats a great smile!

Once a man has caught your attention, how do you let him know you’re interested?

I usually do the “flirty eye” thing women do when they like a guy. Kind of a “Hey, you’re cute. Come on over!” look.

What’s your ideal date?

My ideal date would be doing something fun like rock climbing or even a nice dinner and a walk after. An activity that allows for good conversation is always a plus!

What about a man turns you on the most?

A guy has to give me a look. It’s an “I want you, and I’m not waiting another minute” look.

What is the hottest thing a man can do in the bedroom?

Take charge and be vocal about your needs. No one is a mind reader so tell your partner what you want.

What should a man never, under any circumstances, ever do in the bedroom?

Don’t just assume a woman is down for anything unless she says she is. A lot of things can be surprising in the bedroom, and not in a good way.

When do you feel sexiest?

I feel sexiest when I am in lingerie. Black lingerie is an essential part of every woman’s wardrobe!

What can a man do to make you feel sexy?

A man needs to show and tell me he thinks I look sexy. Kisses, soft touches, eye contact, words, etc., can all be used to his advantage.