This may come as a surprise to both sexes, but compared to guys, women tend to win the orgasm lottery. At least that's the finding of a study conducted by Concordia research and published last month in the lyrically named Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology journal.
Concordia's findings were that variety is the spice of a woman's bedroom life. Unlike men, who are limited to the same old, same old when it comes to the big O, women have remarkable opportunities to get all shivery and shaky from a number of sources.
The study's authors looked at vaginal and clitoral orgasms. Whether one or the other is real has been debated by sex researchers for years. According to the release that broke down the study results, researchers arrived "at a new understanding of the female orgasm that incorporates the external clitoral glans, the internal region around the G-spot, the cervix and sensory stimulation of non-genital areas such as the nipples."
Senior study author Jim Pfaus was quoted as saying that through "experience, stimulation of one or all of these triggering zones are integrated into a 'whole' set of sensory inputs, movements, body positions, arousals and cues related to context."
According to Pfaus, the combined inputs "is what reliably induces pleasure and orgasm during masturbation and intercourse" for women.
Even more interesting, Pfaus and his co-authors concluded that the elements that mix to make that magic moment can change over time "as women experience different kinds of orgasms from different types of sensations in different contexts and with different partners."
Pfaus emphasized that their findings underscored that the assumption a woman's orgasm is some variation on the male version is dead wrong. "Unlike men," said Pfaus, "women can have a remarkable variety of orgasmic experiences, which evolve" over time. The landmarks on a map of sweet spots all across a woman's body "is not etched in stone," Pfaus said, "but rather is an ongoing process" and determined through experimentation and discovery.
Guys, you're pretty much stuck with what you've got, though most won't complain about that. However if you really want to get her going, remember she's like a finely-tuned, highly sensitive instrument. You need to become a virtuoso.