This Is the Real Reason Why She Doesn’t Want You to Go Down on Her

The answer may surprise you…

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Would you ever turn down a blowjob? I’m going to go ahead and assume that you wouldn’t. That would be straight-up crazy if you did.

But in case you hadn’t noticed, a lot of women turn down oral sex when a dude wants to go down on them, which is odd, considering a lot of women bitch about not getting enough head.

I mean, you’d think that women love it when you go down on them, right? It’s basically proven that women like it as much as you enjoy receiving blowjobs…so why do so many women turn men down when they offer to go downtown? 

Well, according to a new study, the answer is quite simple, but it’s going to be hard for you to hear, so please, brace yourself. 

Basically, women don’t want you do go down on them simply because they don’t want to go down on you in return. Like, they’re willing to sacrifice an orgasm just to avoid giving you head.

I know, I’m sorry. I told you it was kind of a bummer.

“It seems that women may be reluctant to ask for oral sex from their male partners because they are not overly keen on reciprocating the act,” the author of the study, Karen L. Blair, told PsyPost.

“Men really enjoy providing oral sex to their female partners and would like to do this more, but women are reluctant to let them do this (we do see that women in mixed-sex relationships report engaging in this behaviour less and that they are less likely to say they want the frequency of it to increase).

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“So, men could be reporting that they want to do this more because their partners are reluctant and they really would like to do it more.”

Way back when, I told you that a lot of women don’t even like giving blowjobs 28 percent, to be exact. Aside from the fact that it feels good for you and gives her complete control over you and your dick for the time being, having your genitals in her mouth basically does nothing for her.

And considering that a study found that significantly less than half of men go down on their girlfriends, while most women generously give their dudes blowjobs, you can’t entirely blame her for not wanting to go down on you. It’s not exactly a fair trade-off.

On a side note, the study also found that men enjoy P-in-V sex a lot more than women do and get more satisfaction out of it, whereas women find that the secret to orgasms lies in lube, sex toys, and porn. You might want to keep that in mind. 

Well fellas, if you’re wondering why the hell she keeps saying she doesn’t want you to go down on her, now you know.

It’s because she doesn’t want to blow you. 

H/T: Daily Star