One of my main passions in life is helping people get better at sex, because honestly, sex is one of the greatest things on the planet, and it would be a perfect world if all of us could have mind-blowing sex.
Nevertheless, sex is one of those things where if it’s bad, it’s still good. But that doesn’t mean it shouldn't be better. We all deserve amazing sex.
And that, my dudes, is why I was ecstatic when I came across this charming Reddit thread titled “What's your best sex tip/trick?” where people from near and far kindly share their best sex tips, so that we can try them out for ourselves.
For the sake of simplicity, I read through the length thread and found the best of the best sex tips, and compiled them into this handy list, just for you.
1. “While going down on her, put a finger or two in her and gently do the 'come here' thing with your fingers while licking her clitoris softly.”
2. “When you are fingering a girl, rather than going in and out like a maniac, try either rotating your fingers or using the come hither method. Both are much more effective.”
3. “Lube. Honestly, sometimes girls don't secrete enough. Or you've been going for too long and the condom is starting to hurt her. Grab a bottle of lube. The slipperier the slide, the better the ride.”
Yes! The slipperier the slide, the better the ride, indeed.
5. "Be present in the moment. Pay attention to body language. When she says right there, don't speed up, don't slow down. Be right there."
6. "If you're gonna pull hair, do it gently at first and make sure you grab as much as you can. If she likes it, pull harder."
7. "I abide by the philosophy of "The wetter the better". Before you penetrate, make sure she's wetter than a rain storm. Some girls don't get as wet, so you might need lube. Just keep this in mind: chafing isn't fun. Make sure she's ready."
8. "You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes that's not right to do. Sometimes you've got to make some love. And fuckin' give her some smoochies too."
9. "Say their name when you're fucking them. Tell them how much you like fucking them, how hot they are, how you need them."
10. "Don't be afraid to laugh together. Sex is a ridiculous and hilarious series of acts. The best sex I ever had was when my partner and I were not afraid to be goofy and silly and just enjoy each other."
11. "If she likes something, and she's into it: DON'T GO FASTER. Maintain the same pace and she will enjoy it more and more."
12. "In any position, try to rub her clit while you're thrusting. If you get the rhythm right, she WILL appreciate it."
13. "I don't care about dirty talk. But hearing out loud that my partner likes my body will take me from wet enough to soaking in no time."
14. "Here's one that requires little to no effort or skill. Compliment, compliment, compliment. Your partner will feel better, more confident, comfortable and receptive."
15. "Be vocal. Say what you want, say what feels good, say what doesn't. Either communicate with your partner, or don't be upset when it's mediocre."
16. "Seriously, nothing like some neck kisses to make the ladies drop them panties."